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ETIQUETTE

PROTOCOL

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Imagine what a life without discipline would look like. 

Imagine parenthood without structure, pet ownership without obedience, or a contract without clauses. 

I do not subscribe to chaos. 

 

I am a high-protocol Dominatrix and I will only engage with those who respect My values and My time.

Energy is exchanged with each interaction, and Mine is a precious resource reserved for those who take Me and My craft seriously. 

 

Study this well before engaging with Me.

You never know when you will be tested...

PROTOCOL

  • Bookings require a minimum of 24 hours notice, preferably a week. My schedule is generally booked and I require time to plan for your awakening. This is not lastminute.com. I am not a drive-through you can cruise through when it suits. I will not entertain requests with 24-hours or less notice.

  • I only accept bookings once My Application to Serve has been completed. This is for Me to understand your boundaries, medical conditions, desires, and fantasies. I look for well-articulated, specific, and honest answers that allow Me to get to know you.

  • Session negotiation will take place via email, or a paid phone call. If I suspect you are using this for a free jerk-off, you will be sent an invoice.

 

  • A deposit is required to account for My time spent planning, and your possible cold feet. You have approached Me and that means you’ve done your research = it's not a scam. Pay the deposit or no booking. Discreet payment options are available. 

  • Be clean. Be present. Show up to sessions on time, clean shaven in nether regions, freshly showered, teeth brushed, without perfume/cologne, and with tribute as instructed. If douching is necessary for anal play, find instructions.

ETIQUETTE

  • ​​You will address Me by My honorific: Mistress. This is your first test. How well can you follow instructions?

  • Manners are sexy. Formal, respectful, and well-constructed communication is endearing. Disrespectful, colloquial, or lewd comments are not. 

  • Hands to yourself - Do Not Touch Me without permission.

  • Do not arrive intoxicated or on drugs. I will make you high enough.​

  • Study Me. Follow My social media accounts (Instagram, Fetlife & X), and read My website. Attention to detail with follow-through is a sure way to Impress Me.

  • Obedience is sexy. Complacency is not. Adhering to all of My instructions will enhance the session. Topping from the bottom or being a brat will have you bear the full weight of My control. 

  • Don't be greedy. Sometimes I will be generous sexually, other times I won’t. Don’t expect this as a standard part of my service. I intend to dominate you psychologically and physically first and foremost, the rest is at My pleasure discretion.

  • Rewards are rare treasures—earned, never expected. They are best served cold, without expectation. The more you give to Me, the more I desire to give to you. Well-behaved individuals are obedient, enthusiastic to please, and demonstrate respect. They receive the best of My attention.

  • Let go, and have fun! Surrender in mind, body, and soul and you will drop deeper than the earths floor. Do not run away from your fear: these nerves will become your kryptonite, the gateway into your own Pleasure Kingdom.

     Remember: Fear conquered = Courage & Triumph. 

     You are about to embark on an experience like nothing you           have known before, so lean in, and have fun! 

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Mistress Sade

Auckland, Aotearoa New Zealand

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